Holding the hand of your woman or man, why not sit silently? Why not close your eyes and feel? Feel the presence of the other, enter into the presence of the other, let the other’s presence enter into you; vibrate together, sway together; if suddenly a great energy possesses you – and you will reach to such orgasmic peaks of joy as you have never known before.we have to be alone very often. We’d be quite happy if we spent time alone with my partner. That’s how we refuel.